What Hurts...

1. Shielding your heart from loving somebody.

2. Falling in love with someone you didn't mean to fall in love with.

3. Finding the perfect guy with only one problem. He doesn't love you the way you want him to.

4. Seeing the one you love crying for someone else.

5. Having to hear, "I've met someone."

6. Him telling you he'll meet his ex.

7. The waiting also hurts like hell.

8. Being in love.

9. Having a good time just by spending time with him but you don’t know if you’re really special.

10. He makes you feel special but he doesn’t say anything.

11. Being denied in front of people.

12. Trying to hide what you really feel.

13. Hearing lies where he'd been when actually, he was with a new friend or an old flame.

14. Still loving that person too much.

15. Having no courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love.

16. Letting go of the person you've just learned to love.

17. Hearing that you’re treated “special”…from his friends.

18. Holding back only to find out its too late, you both felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that you didn't let the feelings out.

19. Finding out that the things will never be the same again -he no longer treat you with the same closeness as before.

20. He left you to return to his ex (d one he left 4 u!)

21. Seeing the one you love court your friend.

22. Pretending you don't love the person whom you actually love.

23. Giving up someone you never thought of giving up.

24. Letting go even if you really don’t want to; having no right to say you are hurting because it was your fault.

25. Having the thought of him being happier with her.

26. Trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from your eyes.

27. Realizing how stupid your mistakes were that led to him leaving you.

28. Having the thought that this guy used to really love you and you loved him as well but you didn't give enough so he gave up on you.

29. Agreeing to his wish to just be friends.

30. Trying to forget everything that happened and act like normal friends again.

31. Him sharing with you his future plans for the girl.

32. You stopped being friends because his gf asked him to.

33. Letting go, because every time you see the person, you only fall deeper.

34. Reminiscing the good times you shared together.

35. Pretending you're OK when inside you’re dying.

36. Lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can never have....again.

37. Seeing the person you love hurt and not being able to help that person.

38. Pretending to be strong and recognizing your weaknesses.

39. Love comes back when you’re ready to forget the person.

40. Having to face the fact that someone is really capable of completely destroying the wall that you have set for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable.

41. Being with the person you can't actually love.

42. Controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend.

43. Taking the risk to fall in love again.

44. Having the right love at the wrong time.

45. Hiding your relationship from someone else.

46. Sharing the one you love with somebody else.

47. Breaking someone's heart.

48. Fighting for that one thing that would make you happy; that is, holding on to a person who can not guarantee you his commitment unless he fix himself, then you are left hanging for a moment. You know that only time can tell but you still decided to hope in him.

49. Believing that love exists after you've been hurt and admitting that you really love someone despite his imperfections.

50. Finding out that the more you try to hate him, the more you end up loving him, perhaps even more than before.

And what hurts most is...
Learning to forgive, learning to forget, learning to trust and learning to love again...